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Elder Yde and I on our way back from Soldotna. |
I'm standing outside; backing up Elder
Yde
[pronounced wide]. We are about to go inside the mission
home and email, and it's HOT!! It's so hot! It's sunny and beautiful
and green, but it's baking. The car is on fire!! It's 80ºF in
Anchorage. How on earth does it get 80º in Anchorage? So I don't
know what I'm going to do. Although, I do have hope because a guy
that we know went down to Mexico for two weeks. He said it got to
120, but he said it felt the same there as it does in here because
it's more humid here. So, I'm hoping that's why it feels really,
really hot right now. I'm hoping that when I set foot in Utah, I
won't turn into toast.
This week we actually went on exchanges
down to Soldatna. Elder Yde was with Stirling for a little while, but
I stayed in Soldatna the whole time, or with the Elders in Soldatna I
should say. That was good. They are good hard workers, and they teach
well. There wasn't anything we really needed to be concerned about.
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The new group of missionaries.
They are wonderful and we're so happy to have them here! =) |
We had transfers. That was pretty
intense. We helped all the new missionaries and helped them get in ad
situated. We had to bring in a bomb squad to clean our apartment. It
was pretty trashed. It was pretty hectic until about a day or two
ago, and then we went down to Soldatna. We haven't even stayed in our
apartment for the last two weeks. Well I haven't. When Elder Yde came
in, we stayed in the mission home for like a week. Anyway, it's been
fun; super busy; super awesome. I'm definitely learning a lot,
especially about being organized. I committed to be super diligent,
especially in my record keeping (no pun intended) this last transfer.
I am excited to be with Elder Yde. I'm
pumped about the area; it looks like we will have more time to work
in our area and help the people there. We have a few investigators
that are really cool and prepared to hear the message of the gospel.
Yeah, I really couldn't ask for anything more; I'm pretty happy.
Life is good. Talk to you all next
week.
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Elder Record, Elder Martinez and Elder Yde |
Oh! HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, DAD!
Various places Elder Record has traveled as an Assistant to the President.
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Q: As you have begun working with
the 18 and 19 year old new missionaries, have you noticed any common
challenges they face that are different from the challenges the older
missionaries faced?
No, I think the struggles are pretty
much the same. I think the focus should definitely be on the mental
preparation like you said. That's the biggest challenge I see in both
groups. People talk about how wonderful and spiritual missionary work
is, but in conversation it's hardly ever discussed how stressful and
challenging it is. For example, I came out very idealistic thinking
that all missionaries loved being there, loved being obedient to the
mission rules, and were always happy and energetic, always focusing
on the work. You have the exact same struggles, attitude, and
challenges you came out with. Things don't change overnight. I'm not
clueless, but I guess the thought never crosses my mind that everyone
wasn't perfect... sounds silly, but nobody ever really expressed the
stress that's involved. However because of experiences you shared
dad, and from other things I knew there would be challenges, I just
never had any idea at what magnitude. I've grown so much because the
Lord has helped me to look forward with hope much like it's described
in
2
Nephi 31:20. So when things got really hard, the question wasn't
"do I do this or not?", but "how do I get through
this?" It was also important for me to know that my first source
of support was my Father in Heaven, then those around me.
Anyway, that's kind of a long winded
version of what I was trying to say =). Just make sure they prepare
for the mental stress and not to shy away from letting people who
need to know, know your struggles. One of the biggest things that
causes us grief is when we find out problems people have after things
have gotten out of control when we could have prevented the problem
by helping out in the beginning. Spiritually people seem to be really
prepared, and that is so wonderful, but missionaries tend to be way
less mentally prepared for the challenges of dealing with people and
working hard and effective all day. Physically I've never noticed any
problems. =)...
One more thing, tell the missionaries
to lock their hearts. If there is anyone in there waiting for them
leave them locked inside. Don't bring them out on your mission, and
don't let anyone in on your mission. A mission president, not mine
=), once got up in front of his missionaries and asked very kindly,
"By a show of hands, who has been promised in their patriarchal
blessing that they would find their eternal companion on their
mission?" Everyone, of course looked around wondering who it
was, expecting to see some raised hands. Nobody raised their hands.
The mission president then said, "Nobody? Then stop looking!"
and sat back down.
We are expected to devote
all
our time and attention to serving the Lord. That is what we promise
when we come out. It's not a status thing. It's not a rite of
passage. It's for the Lord and about him. Your not going to be a very
happy missionary if all you can see is yourself. You need to learn
how to look past yourself and see others. No part of serving a
mission is about you. It's about the Lord and your brothers and
sisters you are here to help. If someone can't handle it mentally,
things aren't magically going to change when they get here. They have
to have the mindset before they come out that they can turn to the
Lord, and that He can and will help. I wasn't entirely prepared to
come out. When I got here I was very much overwhelmed and stressed
out. However, I knew that He is mighty to save and I could turn to
Him with "full purpose of heart" and He would deliver me
(
Mosiah
7:33). The principles found in
Ether
12:27 also helped me out a ton. I'm not perfect and I'm still not
perfect, but if anyone has a desire to serve the Lord in full-time
missionary service, they need to understand the principle of turning
to the Lord for their support if they want to be happy, have fun, and
grow the way the Lord intends them to on their mission.
Ya... you can tell I've been thinking
about this a lot lately =) I hope some part of that helped. It helped
me understand my thoughts a little more. =)
Love, Elder Record